Marrying an NRI was the biggest mistake of my life! Try to be gentle with your partner and ask whether she wants to have sex a second or third time. That's what he would become on the first night. They will be disappointed though, to find out that the new seed of marriage they helped to plant might not bear the desired fruits after all. You could be left wondering why people like to do this at all. Dear parents, now that I am in my late 20s, I wish you knew these secrets about my personal life.
My advice to you virgins? Totally agree with you on this one! It was exhilarating and wonderful. Once when you are aware that it is going to happen then you should just take your time and enjoy. We were in this situation and had a fabulous experience! I appreciate your article and the respectful way this sensitive subject has been discussed.
Advice for a virgin on her wedding night | Offbeat Bride
I am certain that the about guests who attended the wedding will talk about it for a very long time. It may feel painful for the first few times. The conversation only came up once, and we both quickly agreed to it. Nor was I thinking about sex that much in the run-up to the wedding. I mean, shall we have sex session from night until next morning or shall we stop after few hours? Women just have to urinate to flush out any germs that may have crept up into the urethra during sex.
Also don't feel like you HAVE to have sex on the first night if you are really scared. DH and I were both virgins until we got engaged and only had a quickie on the wedding night as we were too tired for anything more. Don't worry so much about putting all of the importance to "wedding night" as chances might be that you'll be exhausted from all the other emotional stuff going on during that day. Communicate before during and after sex! I have fitted 4 women with diaphragms. Why wouldn't Scaredy Pants have mentioned such restrictions in her question? I think one thing is missing from this advice post: